How to get a guy back without even trying, you may ask yourself. The truth is, this is the best approach when it comes to trying to get your boyfriend back. Giving him space will not make you sound so desperate, even if you really are. This will allow things to settle down and as you ignore him, he will think that you are perfectly fine without him. If you are planning to get your guy back, you need to know his type and act accordingly.
Trying to get him into an emotional conversation will not work, since guys are afraid about confrontations, so be cool when you are having conversation with him. While this may be hard to do, indirect approach may still be your best chance to get a guy back. You can give some subtle hints about your feelings, like telling him you have gone to the place that you both frequented while you were still together. This can easily show him that you are missing him.
Sometimes, even well-laid plans do not end well, so even if at first things do not go well as you envisioned it to be, be hopeful still and know that if you are really meant to be, you can find ways to be together again. You may do all those things to get him back, but if the timing is not perfect, it will not happen. Just go on with your normal life, meet new friends, get a career and even enter a new relationship. In the end, if you are really meant to be, you will eventually find a way to get back to each other.
If the guy does not show appositive response even if you have tried everything, maybe it is time to stop and think things through. Being assertive will not cut it, lay down low and let him be. You can ask him to dinner as a last resort to talk things over, but if he does not agree, stop trying to get him back. Ignoring him for a while may be your last chance for good.